Anonymous asked: I asked her why she likes feminizing me and boy did I get a surprise. She said she did it cause she knew all along I liked being feminized. I had no idea she knew, I thought it was her desire. She said she knew from a number of things early on that she explaine, Like how I would look at women;s clothes, how I acted kind of demure, how I wore men's clothes that were a little on the fem side, and much other stuff. She did say I bring out the lez in her when I look especially like a woman.
That’s a fantastic answer. Another piece of the female side of domination seems to be desire to please a mate at any cost. Ergo: if it turns you on/makes you happy, then it does that and more for her. And likewise for men as well, the desire to please can undoubtedly lead to the desire to serve and be dominated, thus allowing us to please and make happy those we love or love to serve more selflessly and focused.
Anonymous asked: Wife said it's cause he mother was like that, and that she is attracted to my boyish looks. Also she said she took over the finances and descision making cause I was so poor at it, It feels normal to her. As for me, you are right, it's stress, although i didn't see the conection. I can't handle very much stress without feeling like I want to crawl in a hole and hide, and he handling hte stress and taking charge,takes away that horrible feeling I have
It’s always different from person to person, of course, but I have noticed specific trends in what causes these behavioral changes. I’m happy to hear both of your sides. What about the sexual role reversal side of her dominance? Did she have an opinion on what drives her to feminize you in such ways?
Anonymous asked: My wife dresses me for her pleasure, at first it was just a humerous thing, over time it has become more mormal. along with the dressing, she became more assertive and dominant, it was like she fed off it and grew into it more and more. and me the same in reverse. I don't understand why we like that do you?
I’m not sure that I could provide a definitive answer, but I think there are a lot of things over time that add up to the desire to be submissive, as a male or female even. It could be perhaps any amount or persuasion of abuse from childhood, or high stress life/job/career, conditioning, etc.
If you work in a high stress type of environment, and or have a lot of heavy responsibility from day to day, subconsciously and eventually consciously, we tend to learn to enjoy the ability to let go, and not need to be in control. And on the flip side of that coin, the dominants can tend to have little or no control, or at very least be conditioned to feel as though they are not in control, and thus given the opportunity to dominate and overpower another.
It’s a feeling of empowerment on both sides.
In my opinion anyways. Perhaps ask your wife, what it is exactly that she enjoys about dominating you, in any particular way she does. I’d be interested to know her answer. See if she has any opinion as to why you enjoy the situation as well. Communication is always key, and while it seems like there is no lack of such between the two of you, it could help to push things to a new level, given hearing and trying to vocally and emotionally understand why it is you do what you do.
Just a few things, nominal and grandiose and everything in between, that I often times dream and even day dream of either growing the courage to act upon or having the action forced upon me. In no particular order.
*Going to the tanning salon (or maybe even outdoor tanning), to get some sexy tanlines, and maybe one of those slutty, sub-hip ‘tantoos’ IE: playboy bunny, hearts, stars, etc.
*Getting a cute hip tattoo, and/or tramp-stamp, and/or thigh tattoo, and/or bows/stocking lines on the back of my upper thighs.
*Regular appointments for waxing, potentially leading to laser removal or electrolysis.
*Slowly going out in public, comfortably increasing my “en-femme” appearance.
*Regular mani/pedis.
*Gradually increasing the size of my feminine wardrobe, not however, phasing out my male wardrobe… at least until I figure out the true desired extent of my femininity and desire to be such.
*Eventually, I hope goddess finds a way to successfully relinquish my right to wear my male underoos, by hiding them in a place that I would not be able to find or reach them, effectively forcing me to wear panties 24/7 unless otherwise allowed to wear male undies.
*Learn to effectively suck cock.
*Learn to swallow my cum in such a way, that even without the presence of Goddess I am conditioned to eat it all on my own, EVERY time I cum.
*Find a chastity device that is comfortable enough to wear for EXTENDED periods of time, including over-night. So far we’ve tried the Curve, and the Birdlocked Neo. Neither of which are wearable over-night due to circulation issues.
Ask Away!
- 1. Do you sleep in your bra?
- 2. Does your dad know you like boys (or girls) yet?
- 3. Do you enjoy drama?
- 4. Are you a girly girl?
- 5. Small or large purses?
- 6. Are you short?
- 7. Do you like somebody? .
- 8. Do you like Halloween?
- 9. Where is the weirdest place you have slept?
- 10. Is there any type of rumor going around about you?
- 11. Do you call anybody by their last name?
- 12. What color is the bra that you’re wearing?
- 13. Do you prefer light or dark haired guys?
- 14. Are you currently frustrated with a boy?
- 15. Do you have a best friend?
- 16. Have you ever had your heart broken?
- 17. Have you ever thought of having plastic surgery?
- 18. Have you ever jumped in the pool with your clothes on?
- 19. How long have you had a Tumblr?
- 20. Have you ever slapped a boy in the face?
- 21. What are your biggest fears?
- 22. Have you ever cried yourself to sleep?
- 23. Do you believe in the saying “once a cheater, always a cheater”?
- 24. Do you ever wish you were famous?
- 25. Are you currently missing someone?
- 26. Who are you texting right now?
Rules and Discipline as Goddess’ Sissy Slut
*My toenails are to be painted at ALL TIMES.
*I am to wear a bra/panties with a nighty, booty pajamas, camisole or romper to bed.
*Monday through Friday, I am required to wear panties and a bra under my clothes once I get home from work, Except on Thursdays, when I am required to wear panties and a sports bra to work.
*I am required to use girly body wash, shampoo, conditioner, and deodorants/ body sprays EVERY shower.
*For at least three hours, twice a week after my shower, I am required to be locked in chastity and wear a buttplug, longer if Mistress decides it is necessary.
*When Mistress and I go out, I am required to wear at least two pieces of girly jewelry, panties/bra, stockings, and feminine fragrance (body spray, perfume or otherwise.)
*I am required to make at least one girly purchase every two weeks, and must have each purchase approved by mistress.
*After 8:00pm I am not allowed to touch Mistress, or myself, without Mistress’ permission.
*Before falling asleep, I must ask what I can do to please Mistress… rub her neck, brush her hair, paint her nails, paint my nails….etc.
*I will submit to a full sissy makeover once a month, and pose for pictures.
*I am not yet to allowed to post my own sissy pictures, as Goddess uses them for collateral, and will post as she wishes.
*Throughout the week of Goddess’ period, I have the choice each night, between sleeping in chastity, or cumming, however she decides, and eating it.
MISTRESS IS NOT A SISSY CUM DUMPSTER…
*I am allowed to cum in mistress’ pussy once a week. I need to clean up my mess however mistress sees fit.
*I am allowed to cum in mistress’ mouth, but she will not swallow. When I cum in mistress’ mouth, she will spit back into my mouth, on my chest, on my face, onto a toy or hand as lube for my sissy pussy, or however else she feels.
ADDITIONS/REVISIONS TO THE RULES, FOR THE NEW YEAR:
As of January 1st, 2012:
*I am required to wear panties at ALL times when I am not locked in chastity, and while at work, I am to accompany my panties with a sports bra. My male boxer-briefs, will only be given to me by Goddess personally, for special and/or pre-designated occasions, or when I am locked in chastity.
*I am required to re-paint my toenails once every two weeks.
*Pending the discovery of a long-term wearable chastity device I will be locked up for periods of time designated by Goddess by use of Kept For Her Dice. Goddess has one key to the device, and I will have one in a laminated card the size of a credit card, for emergencies only. (Incase of emergency I will tear away laminate and remove key, but I am only allowed to do so after contacting Goddess and letting her know the problem, and receiving permission).
*I am only allowed to use girly, flavored chapsticks, possibly a light lip gloss, if there exists one that is not too glossy.
*I am required now to eat every last drop of cum that i produce, when I am allowed to cum, and Goddess has no other plan for it (IE: slapping my face, lubing up a buttplug, etc)
These are the rules hereinsofar. Mistress has the right to change these rules, add more, or take some off at her own discretion. I will be posting the punishments slated for breaking any of these rules as they come up.
